I was talking to a guy for about 3 months, thought thinks we're going good and out of no where he told me his feelings for me weren't strong and ended things with me. I'm fine during the day when I'm around people, but I always feel so empty at night when I'm alone with my thoughts. How do you guys move past rejection and be happy with being single?
Most Helpful Guy
i think it helps to keep friends around of the opposite sex.
2nd and more important-enjoy your own company, you should be okay with being alone before you get into a relationship or you'll be using it as a crutch for something that's missing. doesn't mean you don' t mourn a relationship... and a lot can happen in 3 months... but you can't lose yourself in a relationship. or after it's over you feel empty, like you lost yourself.
I also think doing things for yourself can help-like maybe reinvent yourself a little, try some new styles, shop for yourself and do other things for YOU, not to attract men.. but for you. ie fall in love with yourself a little... it also makes you irresistable if you do.0
Most Helpful Girl
Rejection is a part ofgrowing up and being an adult. Its a learning experience. You reflect, you grow stronger from it. Rejection is a hit to the ego. Makes you wonder what's wrong with you. Makes you feel not good enough. But honestly it makes you stronger emotionally. You get turned down for a lot of things, interviews, jobs, dates, that shouldn't stop you from moving forward.