So we have an interim court order until we can resolve issues. He gets to FaceTime 4x a week. He is the one that got this stuff all started because he decided he wanted to stay where his girlfriend lived vs moving where I am, that we had agreed upon. I have had my child ready every FaceTime this week but he failed to call for today, so I gave him time, an hour, still nothing, so I text him saying he missed FaceTime tonight. He said he forgot the scheduled times. I had made plans tomorrow night and he asked if he could FaceTime then. I said no, but that we can resume schedule as ordered by a judge on Saturday. He says it's my responsibility to make this happen. I'm I in the wrong? This isn't his first time doing this.
Most Helpful Guy
This is like a visitation. All you have to do is prepare the child and be ready to let him take her. If you show up and he's not there or he's late, that's his problem. The unfortunate thing is the child sees her father as uncaring when he doesn't call or respond for a FT request.
Like a couple people mentioned, make sure you log each time and attempt and keep it ready to present to your lawyer. In addition, save those texts he sent. Be as reasonable as possible trying to meet a schedule he can comply with, but you have a life to live also
Judges are not stupid. They see the effort you've made and that fact he did not. That behavior heavily affects their decisions. I don't believe you're wrong at all. If you have any doubts, contact a lawyer.0
Most Helpful Girl
No your not. At the end of the day it doesn't take much to face time. And it's not like it wasn't planned before0