He only met her 2 weeks ago and she was making hints that she likes him. I made it clear to my boyfriend it isn't him I don't trust but it's the female cause she just looks like the sort of slut who would come on to a guy with a girlfriend
We've been together 3 years, so why would he basically choose breaking up with me over deleting her.
I only asked him aswell, not like I'm making him do it
I've heard so many bad things about relationships being broken because of Facebook, and I don't want that to happen to us
Most Helpful Guy
"I only asked him as well, not like I'm making him do it"
Your approach was not great (and it's a very common thing that a lot of people do). Don't ask him to do things like this (and certainly don't TELL him) - rather, tell him how it MAKES YOU FEEL when he does things like adds a hot girl on FB, and then give him a chance to explain - and LISTEN to what HE says too.
Either of you are allowed to decide if an issue becomes big enough to break up over - but if you're going to be in a relationship, you need to respect each other (and the relationship!) and you have to be able to communicate with each other.
Either your communication has broken down (you're talking - but not listening - to each other) or you've hit upon an issue that you simply can't agree on, and if you can't reach a compromise that you can both live with, then you SHOULD break up, or at least get some counseling by a third party who can help each of you see where you could be doing more to help the relationship.0
Most Helpful Girl
First off, Facebook doesn't break people up, it's peoples actions that break people up.
Second off, nobody would like what he's doing..
Third, I literally just answered a question the other day with a girl having a guy best friend and all the guys said she shouldn't and her boyfriend would have a right to not like it. I answered laughing how guys say that, but when it's the other way they say the girl is a crazy jealous girlfriend. And see here, all saying you should let him have this random new female friend who likes him. Ridiculous. Your boyfriend is disrespectful for doing that. If you met a guy who liked you and stayed in contact with him, everybody would be telling you it's wrong of you, but this way round is ok? Hell no. I don't know a woman that would accept that, and barely know any guys who would to that to their girl.3