So I have been with the same guy for a year now. For the past couple months I've been thinking about ending it but I didn't because I do love him. However, lately things seem worse, We fight a lot and he to me is very mean and insulting. If i correct him on something he accuses me of wanting to always be right and treating him like he is dumb. I"m simplely just not happy anymore. I personally would love to be friends like we used to be, but i know if I decide to end it he won't speak to me. I'm scared because i never ended a relationship with someone before, i have always been the one to get dumped. Is there anyway i can approach this without it being too hurtful?
Most Helpful Guy
Nope. There is no easy way out on this. You need to bite the bullet to do what you have to do for the long term benefit of you and him.1
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds like a toxic relationship and its only get worse. Sometimes a guy can change, but just think how much work you would have to put in to make him want to change. That can be exhausting for you and emotionally draining because your putting in all this energy to keep him around and he isn't doing the same for you. I have dealt with a guy like that and believe me , it only gets worse. I would just tell him straight out that you dont like the way that he treats you and its emotionally draining.. simple as that. And then move on. Now down the line, he may change and he may not. But its not something that you should keep going through on a daily basis.1