My girlfriend and I have broken up before because emotions got in the way and clouded judgement, maybe once and it was her, that was earlier in the year. Since we got back together things have been really good, we enjoyed each others company and started to work things out i though, we even planned a trip for Vegas to see the decorations and stuff and that was going to be our x-mas gift to each other. However, the last couple weeks we started fighting over little things. With that and the stress of finals, her being sexually frustrated (I had a cold sore), and stress from her job things piled up and we it got brought up that she felt I "wasn't there". She started cursing at me and being negative to me and it took a toll on me and I blocked her on social media and my phone not thinking. Obviously, that only made things worse between us. My intentions with that was to make some space between us because I felt it was needed before we went on our Vegas trip. She took it as a break up, which given what I did would seem like it is. I know I made a mistake by doing that and I did it without any thought, just pure charged emotion. I want her to give us one last shot, or at least to talk about things because we both know it was a mistake. I know what to do if we get together but because its happened before, how do I reassure her that the same mistake won't happen and that she can trust that I will be there and won't hurt her like this again?
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Try to talk to her. Organize a time and explain what happened calmly. Tell her that you love her and that you need her in your life, but whatever you do, STAY CALM. If she curses at you again, KEEP YOUR COOL and don't get angry (don't show it anyway). If she says that it's really over, respect it. Girls don't like a guy who tries to get them back too much. If you try to get her back forever, she'll file you under 'creeps' and you'll have even less of a chance. Just remember to KEEP YOUR COOL and DONT PANIC. And also be 100% truthful.0