Bare with me here people this is a long one..
Okay so me and my current boyfriend have been together almost 2 years now. He's a good guy but just very lazy and doesn't seem to want to work or do anything for himself..
Anyways there's a lot of other little things wrong with my relationship like the fact he's 24 and has never hit puberty.. Yes he has medically never grown up even his male parts are.. Underdeveloped.. Anyways that's not the reason I'm so unhappy I truly thibk it's toxic.. Now here's where I need my advice...
I can't seem to be alone.. I hate it.. I hate sleeping alone, living alone, coming home from work alone, going places by myself so I guess out of comfort I always have him come back and can't seem to leave.. Anyways help.. Advice would be great..
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like you're both too comfortable to be honest. You're just as bad for not wanting to walk away because "We've been together so long" ... it's two years not twenty.
Give him a friendly kick in the ass by saying this to him. If either of you care enough then once someone actually walking away is on the table things will start moving. If not? Ending something like this can only be good longer term. It's going nowhere. Better now then when you're 30 and recent each other for holding each others lives back.0
Most Helpful Girl
You can never be fully independent and happy unless you can feel comfortable being on your own. If you always depend on other people you'll always be in a relationship with the wrong guy. You'll settle rather than wait.
You deserve to be with someone who you feel comfortable and happy with. He deserves the opportunity to be with a girl who feels happy with him. So it's kinder to the both of you to end it.
Allow this as an opportunity to make you stronger and more independent , as well as more self-reliant Then when you meet the right guy he'll enrich your life and just add extra happiness to your existing happiness0