My girlfriend (possibly ex) told me to die in a car crash because I didn't take her side in a fight. What do I do?

My girlfriend has been having a lot of issues with her family. Her mom wrote out a contract telling her that she has to do household chores while living at home. I told my girlfriend that it was absolutely ludicrous that her mom wrote a contract, but the things in the contract are things that should be done anyway. She got absolutely livid. She showed the rest of her family the contract and they all said the same thing as I did. She has been fighting with everybody for 3 days. Last night I was trying to talk to her on the phone and she told me to go get in a car crash.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • She sounds very immature, acting like a 6 year old child. She wants someone to agree with her, so when you said that, she got frustrated. It was wrong in her part to take the anger out on you when you were trying to help. When she's calm, be direct but with a gentle tone that you didn't like how she treated you when all you wanted was for her to sort through it to ease the situation.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • 1. Don't die in a car crash.

    2. I'm sure her mother has a reason for putting all of this is writing. Probably, they have discussed this before and your girlfriend denied having said that she would agree to certain conditions. Parents want to hep their children beyond age 18 but they don't want to be used. There is at least one more side to this story.

    3. It would be a mistake to try to intervene in the conflict between your girlfriend and her mother.

    4. It sounds as of your girlfriend is not yet willing to accept adult responsibilities and that is a WARNING SIGN!

    5. If your girlfriend thinks that her stress justifies saying something horrible to you, she does not respect you or your relationship. You will probably be looking for another girlfriend in the near future.

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What Girls Said 3

  • Complete overreaction, and based on that alone I can understand why the mum has done what she has.
    Don't pay her any mind. Tell her you won't be spoken to like that and not to communicate unless she can be a decent human being. What a horrible thing to say

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  • She feels betrayed and let down. She feels like you should be the one person on her side and to get where she is coming from. Let her act it out with everyone and then try and explaining your reasons again. There is no reason yet to assume your relationship is going to end.

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  • block her number

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What Guys Said 5

  • That's the most ridiculous overreacting I've heard of in my life wtf

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  • Leave her that is uncalled for

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  • She sounds entitled. Or crazy. Maybe both.

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  • she will settle in. give her sometime...
    Being in a midst of jumbled opinions can sometimes bring you annoying replies from even partners...

    All it needs is nurturing and they're all yours.

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  • *Red flag*.. Wow now thats not something you hear everyday.. Thats quite the overreaction.. its just chores.. Leave her if i were you..

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