If you're in an unhappy relationship that hasn't been working for some time and you've been thinking about breaking up, what was the point in which you decided you are actually going to do it? How long did it take you until you finally decided to have the final break up talk?
Most Helpful Guy
Just got tired of dealing with stress caused by the relationship. The day I decided to do it is when my high school buddies were getting together last minute to hit the town. And my girlfriend at the time pretty much expected us to hang out every weekend. I told her I was going with my buddies. She said "I won't be here when you come back" and I said something like "who said I was coming back?" I ignored her calls n texts for maybe two days then I went to go pick up my stuff from her house and have her the I just wanna be friends talk. And you know how that goes.0
Most Helpful Girl
Umm I felt like no matter what I did it was never good enough for him. He was more then happy to linger around the mistakes I did, but didn't want any bit of it when something concerned me about him. I felt like I was jumping through hoops to satisfy he's needs. I apologised sincerely for things that made him upset. Things that made me worry sick about him in the first place, I had to apologise for.
I felt neglected (emotionally) from the relationship. I felt like the relationship aspect was no longer there. I was really unhappy. All I wanted was him to consider me in the situation. I just wanted him to be there for me emotionally like I was for him. He made it hard to want to reconcile. Once it was all about him, I just wanted to not be in it anymore. So I left1
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