ok 3 weeks ago she dumped me and we haven't talked in like 2 weeks and then all of a sudden she shows up at my house to give me 3 shirts and a hat I gave her. And then 3 days later I ran into her newphew at the mall and I told him to wish her happy birthday to me and then I bounced. When I was leaving the mall he stopped me and told me that she was looking for me & wanted to see me (nervous). I said oh okay, when she came to me her sisters were glaring at me and eventually walked away. My Ex told me that I was made her reconsider her no friends with Ex's rule. She said it was cause she always wanted to be my friend even before we dated. During the whole talk of 30mins she was talking to normal lke we didn't even break up she was comment omg on. My lips basically flirting. And she said you can text me I didn't block your number of you noticed etc and balls in my court. But I'm just confused this is my first girlfriend I'm her 2nd boyfriend. We have had sex before and I don't know if that keeps it but yea she basically let me know that she wanted me to contact her. Does this mean she might get back together one day
Girlfriend dumped me but wants to remain in contact... why?
What Girls Said 1
I would advise you to loose contact with her to avoid any confusion and if she have a guy that she's starting to be intimate with, th en it will hurt you.0
What Guys Said 3
Your post is typical and nothing unique here—been there done that. Don’t get excited or the wrong idea because you have something she needs—usually financial, taking care of her illegitimate kids or one on the way, fix the washing machine/car/other, …. etc. Who knows maybe the boyfriend needs bail money. Just don’t kid yourself, it is not you she is after—that is false. That is the typical detrimental response by men. I have one that still wanted to get back together after 30yrs—a total fallacy. The thing that saved me: Once someone leaves you—never go back—and that I can guarantee is the best advice.0
Nope she will never want you back. She just friend zoned you dude. She wants all the perks of being with you without the dating. She still wants to talk and hang out and be around you and use you for emotional support but only as a friend. Only if you want her as a none datable female friend should you text her.0
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