So dated this single mom for year. The kids dad stopped doing the little he was doing because she was dating, "let that N***a raise then (the two wonderful kids). Granted I NEVER saw myself dating someone with kids. long story short I made sure there was groceries in the house, gas in her car, good with the kids, sex is good, just going out of my way and etc...
I get dumped cause I'm a good guy, she said, " now that I have a good guy in front of me I don't know how to deal with it, I'm just not use to it"
She posts on facebook how "good guys don't exist anymore"
So can a woman just explain why someone would do this?
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Lol, so many thoughts and emotions are going through her. If she's like me, I'm a single mom and don't want an overly nice guy (probably like you don't want that overly prefect woman) it's just annoying. If you're happy with a white picket fenc, awesome. But we are wired to lure, please, and keep a man. Men like the chase but also like to feel loved by their woman (women).
You gave her everything but she never had to work for it or earn it. Do parents give their kids everything? No. We don't because if we did, they'd be spoiled brats who don't respect us. Don't give it all away! There's always something attractive about a slight mystery or onset of curiosity.1