I told him, and I told him I want to leave him in hope he would try harder but he just said I should because he wants me to be happy
How do I leave him? We've been together for 3 years and we were eachothers first love
How do I go from texting all the time and seeing him to not doing any of it?
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I did the same thing. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. First loves just like you. I was hoping he would get scared and chase me and try and change. Nope. He didn't do any of that. He said he'd change but never really did. And when I broke it off again he just let me go. people don't change. What you see is what you get. So if he didn't make the effort while in the relationship he for sure won't while he's out of it. My ex realized being single was better than being with me. Nothing I've done has convinced him to come back. It sucks and it sucks bad BUT you have to either settle for how he is and be unhappy or try your hardest to move on and find someone that fits our needs.0