My boyfriend of over a year broke up with my just an hour ago. i found out he was still best friends with his ex, who abused him in the past, and bullied me. saying i had it coming. (the bullying)
He even gave me a promise ring. yes i know im young. but i like to see myself as mature. apparantly his mother suggested it, and hw agreed. he couldnt do the distance, yet he still wants to be best friends.
i haven't felt this much pain in a breakup before and i don't know what to do right now. i don't see anything in the future, i feel hopeless. i have been diagnosed with critical depression but I've never hurt this badly.
Most Helpful Guy
First, relax. This too shall pass, I guarantee it. I know it hurts. I won't trivialize it. But trust me that life does get better. You're 14. I'm 30 years your senior. So believe me, I've seen it all. It will hurt for a bit. But you'll get past that. And you'll find someone 100% more worthy of you than he was.0
Most Helpful Girl
It hurts but it'll pass. Very few relationships from people your age won't last into adulthood anyways. I think it's better now than never.0