So they have to leave your life, would it hurt less if they died or if they replaced you?
- I'd rather they replaced meVote A
- I'd rather they died, peacefully of course, like in their sleep :)Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
I got into a really big argument with a woman I dated. Her husband died. I was in an unwanted divorce. I say it is way harder in a divorce. Yes, it is horrible to lose anyone. Especially someone you love. At least when someone dies, you have closure. You say goodbye, you work through the pain, then you move on.
In a divorce, the person you love more then anything else on earth... your best friend who you can talk to about anything... says they don't want you anymore. They say they never loved you even though you have been together 25 + years or more sometimes. So you have to try and move forward in life knowing the person you love is with someone else. I much rather she had died then lose her the way I did.1
Most Helpful Girl
Died. If they left me for someone else I'd always wonder how they were better or what went wrong or if they had been cheating. And from experience having someone leave you for someone else is a horrible feeling4