It's been 2 months and a week. Yes my pain is getting less and less with time, but I just couldn't stop thinking of "what if" and "why".
how could you do it and get tottaly over it?
Most Helpful Guy
time heals all wounds. it's a trite saying but it is true in this matter. for me i tried to surround myself with friends and family. indulge in personal interests. basically just do things to take my mind off of thigns
then i also stopped those "what if" and "why" questions because those questions will almost never be fully answered and even if they are it won't really fix anything
just try to be patient and let yourself heal. it can take a long time.1
Most Helpful Girl
Never been cheated on but I think after every sudden break up you get those questions"why?" and "what if". You already know me well so I'm not gonna mention the details online, you already know them 😂❤
I'm gonna give you my honest opinion here, I dont think the question of "why" goes away, UNLESS, 1> you ask him why (which I dont recommend coz we both know how he will react, and I dont want you to get even more hurt coz of him) and 2> is if YOU stop yourself for caring about "why". I'll tell you the reason why he dad that... coz he's a jerk. Thats the only answer to your question. You didn't do anything wrong at all, you gave him love and attention but he didn't appreciate it and he was acting cold, moreover, he was leading you on. Thats what you call a jerk. So the only thing you can do is when you as yourself"why" answer yourself"coz he's a jerk" xD or "I dont care why. I'm better off without someone like that". Coz the thing is, you have to convince yourself. We might tell you everything on what to do, but if YOU dont decided to convince yourself then it will all go for nothing. And about the "what if.." there's no "what if" honey, its or "it is" or "its not" and EVERYTHING happen for a reason, if its "what if he wasn't cold" etc. Then it wouldn't be him. So basically you're imagining someone elses' personality. and that someone else WILL come along. He will treat you like a queen and you'll be happy that the "what if's" didn't come true with that jerk. So c'mon, its time you close that chapter of the book in your life and start with a new one, a better one, a chapter which you deserve. ❤ Perciosaaaa 😘😘😘2
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