My ex said that "we don't know what the future holds" but that he doesn't want to be with me right now?

I don't like that my ex broke up with me and told me that "we might" or it's "possible" that one day in the future we might get back together he just doesn't know when or if it would happen. I said well In that case if you want to let this go completely I understand and we can work on being just friends, it'll be hard but I can try. He said then that he didn't want that to be put off the table he just knew it wasn't what he wanted or what would be "good for us right now". Mean while he is single on dating apps talking to girls and I'm over here waiting until the day he's ready to come back. Do you think I should just let him go entirely? I don't like feeling like I'm waiting for him to want me again and I don't really like waiting in general. I feel like it should either be or not be...

And the reason I'm not out there looking for guys is because I'm not emotionally ready. I still love him and talking to other guys isn't on my agenda.


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  • I think he just wants to keep you on his hook, move on :)

  • He wants you as a plan b.

  • Yeah he wants to move on