A few months back I broke up with my boyfriend because I was going through a tough time and I was being irritated by everything he did, partially due to my mental state I think. Anyway, I've been seeing him around recently (not talking but we have texted and he forgave me and said he understood why I broke up with him) sometimes with this girl that he used to casually make out with before we started dating. Every time I see him I just get crushed by regret and longing for when we were together. But once he's out of sight and I've had a minute or two I remember how angry I was at the end of our relationship and think I made the right decision. It's been tearing me up and I don't know what to do.
Most Helpful Guy
Meh, loneliness will do that to you. thats why most people go no contact with their exes. Frickin sucks after.
now from the guy point of view, you broke up with me because you couldn't handle your own feelings? hehe... hell, i think you did him a favor and if i were him, i would NOT come back even if you begged me. Seems like he feels the same way... moved on quick lol.0
Most Helpful Girl
You miss being w/someone, not necessarily him. From his perspective to have someone you love break it off that way hurts. Leave him be because obviously you never loved him as much as he loved you, if you get back together again, it will end up the same way.0