Wow, he broke the Guy Code. Whatever happened to 'bros before hos' and all that? Your brother is pretty shitty if he doesn't care about how it makes you feel, also your ex is also pretty shitty, you don't date your ex's brother/cousin/best friend, unless you're okay with causing a falling out. Now that it's established that your brother and ex are scum on earth what can you do about it.
Try to get as much distance from them as possible. If you're living at home, this can be quite difficult, maybe spend more time at a friend's place? Occupy yourself with other things, find things that you enjoy and love to do. Being happy is the best revenge.
This really sucks man, sorry.
Wow! Your brother is a gigantic ass. He totally broke the #BroCode.
Even friends take it seriously, talk less of an actual biological bro. You need to confront him personally and tell him how you feel about the whole situation, without the girl present.
That girl is playing mind games with you guys, and she might destroy a family If she is not careful. Your bro needs to understand that there are many fishes (chicks) in the ocean (world), he needs to move on from your ex as she could be using him to hurt you.
Talk to him man. Bottling up how you feel won't solve anything.
it sounds like a bit of a sibling rivalry that can last a while. but i would not take it to serious though you guys will get closer as you get older. but for now you guys just have to survive the young years you have growing up with each other.
he might just be using her to get to you and she doesn't see that. and i have seen sibling rivalry get really dirty when it comes too having something better than there brother or sister. its hardly ever fair but
its an unwritten sibling rule. be the best and have the best or be better.
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honestly, I get that it might upset you at first... but it's not about you. They deserve to be happy and don't need anyone's approval.
If you dumped her, why do you care.
If she dumped you, your brother is a cunt.
This is hard to overcome especially when you and your ex ended in a bad way. Your brother didn't care about you. Best you can do is let them be and focus on yourself. Good luck!
If he didn't ask first I would be really disappointed in him and probably wouldn't talk to him
it's messed up plain and simple if you're thinking about it don't do it you're brothers bond is something that you can't get ever again and with a girl you can get it any day
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