I'm nearly 30 years old and sick of being alone I have a good job and make good money, I drive a sports car, I'm tall and good looking, I'm smart with money and have quite a lot for someone my age but yet no one has ever shown interest in me except for one. I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 24 and I knew all those years ago I never should have got involed with her she was totally wrong for me and I always knew it. We got together a year after meeting because we worked in the same restaurant and I didn't even like her when I first started I hated her she was mean all the time to all of her coworkers but over time she started being nice and after a year we were actually work friends. She then started texting me just to say hi or ask how I'm doing, a girl had never done that to me before and I liked it she was and is beautiful only problem is she has children and I knew it could never work if we dated I'm only 24 and she is 28 at the time this was 5 years ago we have been on and off ever since with her always being the one who leaves me for another guy and me waiting heart broken for her to come back and she always comes back because no one else will treat her right I'm the only guy she has ever dated that is not a complete loser who's always in trouble with the law or cheating on her and doing drugs so every time she gets her heart broken she come running back and since no one else has or will ever show interest in me I take her back every time because I'm so lonely. So here I am dumped again for the 5th time for the same guy she left years ago to get with me because he wouldn't quit cooking meth and the best part is he's still in prison for it and isn't getting out for 7 months but she's with him and doesn't ever want to be with me again she says but I know she'll be back. I have no other friends but her no one in my life at all except my parents and I want to know how I can get over her and accept being alone forever before she comes crawling back?
Most Helpful Girl
1) you started by defining yourself based upon your material possessions and money. Unattractive. Find a better basis for self-worth. You don't women valuing you for that, do you?
2) you aren't over your ex and can't end a toxic attachment to her. How are other women supposed to be in your life if you don't make room for them?
3) related to 2. You aren't exercising positive control over your life. You're stuck in the past and not doing anything to improve your situation. Your decision making is very questionable. As is your emotional development. Unattractive.
Get a hold of yourself. Cut the cord to that girl for good, improve your emotional health, actually put yourself in situations to meet other women (guaranteed you aren't -- women aren't just going to fall from the sky into your lap) and be open to them, stop defining yourself by possessions and money and find a higher, more positive reason for existing.
Do those things, and your luck with women should improve.0
Most Helpful Guy
You whine like a teenage girl.
That could be the reason.0