My girlfriend broke up with me 2/7/17. It was hard to go through. I kept begging her for the next few days to come back to me but she would push me away. What destroyed me was, right after she broke up with me, I posted pictures of other girls on my Snapchat to get her jealous and want me back. Well she said she cried herself to sleep and cried for 5 hours when she saw "how fast I got over her". She told me she was going to message me the day after she dumped me to tell me her big mistake and how she wants me back and was not thinking straight. That really hurt to know I could still have her today if I didn't post pictures. I went no contact. Over no contact I was posting on my story me being happy with friends and she posted a mustang picture with other guys and this one guy whom she "missed". She would also put song quotes from songs I showed her and last Wednesday she posted "Missing someone hurts, but what hurts more is knowing you are the reason they are gone" and "what do I do" I knew she had to be talking about me. I broke NC and texted her after a week and a half of NC. She kept telling me about her week and how she likes the single life and these other guys she hung out with so I fired back and showed me with girls. Well it got boring and I went to bed. The next day I texted her this giant paragraph about how much I missed her and wanted her back. She did not think the same. So yesterday, I found out stuff I didn't want to know. She told me she has kissed other guys and she kept hurting me with everything she said. Being a total bitch to me while I was sitting there extremely depressed and the nicer I got the meaner she got. But she still cares for me because I posted suicide threats on Snapchat and a gun and she worried about me. What I don't understand is why did no contact backfire? Why is she a bitch but still cares? And one week before she dumped me, she thought I was dumping her and started crying but then one week later she dumps me? Help please!
Most Helpful Girl
OMG. You both sound ridiculously immature and toxic. Stop trying to get back into this tire fire of a relationship and work on being a better person so you can actually have a decent, healthy relationship someday. Block her completely. None of this looking at each other's story bs. No texting. Nothing. Move on and work on being less of a shitty, drama seeking, insecure, passive aggressive person.0
Most Helpful Guy
All this revenge shit isn't getting either of you anywhere. I'm not sure if you can even salvage a relationship with her at this point. About the only thing you can do now is apologize to her, tell her you were a stupid ass, or something like that, and ask if you can start over again with her. Even then, she might just leave you behind.0