i've been cheated on after 5 years and 2 mnths. how can i forget and continue my life normally? im not able to find an answer and im tired of this. thank you
Most Helpful Girl
remember that it's ok to make a mistake, you will learn from your mistake. Maybe you jumped in too fast, maybe she wasn't the right one for you for some reason.
forgive her, she is imperfect and she didn't know what she was doing either. She didn't do it to hurt you. She did it to protect herself from hurting herself. Some times people think it is best to break it off so they don't hurt anymore or they stop hurting the other person if they think they are bad for them.
after learning from it and forgiving her, you need to just learn to trust again. take it slow, and just let it go from there. good luck!0
Most Helpful Guy
after 5 years? you have to consider a lot of factors mate...
was it a one time thing, an accident, was it on-going, etc. I mean sex is just an act, cheating is a blatant refusal to make your so called partner happy.
If she had sex with someone else... you gotta see the factors.. was she sorry, had it been a long time coming, did you neglect her... i mean.. so much to think about.
If she cheated once, doesn't make it a "bad" relationship... just means someone fucked up and it can be fixed (plus you get one huge get-out-of-jail-free card)
so dont be so quick to throw 5 years down the toilet. Take it from an ex-player. That time is valuable.0