I started dating a guy. Admittedly, we both have been playing games with each other since the start. I am terrified of getting hurt, so I have been really aloof with him. He finally broken down one night and said to me that he is having a hard time figuring me out. Do I like him? Am I playing hard to get? Meanwhile, he's also been acting just as weird. I addressed it one night and he told me that he's still not completely emotionally invested. I wanted to take a step back and be friends, but he didn't want that either. I got frustrated and said, okay, so let's be done, but can I make out with you? He clearly was pissed at me for saying that. He finally said, only if you promise me we will be together tomorrow. I said yes. So we made out, then I told him out of being hurt, right after we made out, that I had just used him. He didn't believe me and I stone cold told him I did and walked off. He started to text me in a panic thinking I was joking. The following day I told him that I do want him, but I also need someone to want me too. I told him we should take a step back and that I will still be there for him. He didn't reply. I text him that night and he was very hard saying I had made my choice and that there was nothing between us to fight for anyways. The next morning he text me again, in a much softer tone saying about the same thing but he would still love to see me and wants to start over as friends and see where things go. I told him it would be best for me to close that door for right now, but i want to be friends. But then I asked him how he would say we had nothing there but then also say he really liked me. He said, well that doors closed now so why does it matter? I finally got to a point where I realized how much I hurt him out of my own fears. I've turned a new leaf and am being more honest with him about my feelings. So far it's working, but he's still not warm and fuzzy. He replies to my texts and is willing to see me.
I unintentionally hurt the guy I like, and now I don't think he trusts me. Based on the following, does he still have feelings for me?
What Guys Said 1
He's still interested but he is terrified that you're going to run again. He let his guard down, you told him that you would be with him, then stabbed him in the back. For things to be completely right you're gonna have to get used to this for a while, best course of action is to be very sweet to him. I'm not saying to go sleep with him. But guys appreciate sweet heart warming things just as much as girls do. It'll heal him. Pretty quickly too. Good luck0
- Show AllShow Less
What Girls Said 0
Be the first girl to share an opinion
and earn 1 more Xper point!
Select as Most Helpful Opinion?
You cannot undo this action. The opinion owner is going to be notified and earn 7 XPER points.