I've been dating this guy, he's 32 he's an account and he's a nice guy, though we hardly ever talk anymore and I dunno. I feel bad because I've got depression and anxiety so I can't always be happy for him. and he makes me feel so small everytime I come to him with problems just saying "it's OK, it'll pass you'll get over it!" and not trying to actually help at all? I dunno Maybe that bit is just me.
but now, I went to visit my best friend I've know for 6 years over the Internet and it sparked some feelings I'd buried because I thought nothing would happen between us. long story short we both revealed we've like each other on and off for years and the flirting has increased.
Now my problem is I feel guilty, BUT I've tried to break it off with the first guy before right after the visit with the second.. but guy 1 guilt tripped me out of it.. and now I don't know how to break it off with him.
Most Helpful Guy
one for the problems you have little things can seem very big trust me I know I share the problem and if he's regular there's so much you can do for people like us and it's easy to feel distant all the time I feel it too like and emptiness and you have good things around you but it doesn't help because there's a problem inside of us you should really try to sit down and discuss your turmoil tell him how you're feeling about yourself and the relationship before just ending it cuz it's hard to find someone who can handle what we bring to the plate don't let the darkness inside of you win and make you feel less it's hard and easy to say just try I got your back1
- Show AllShow Less
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe you should get some help with your depression and anxiety before you decide anything. Those things could kill you before you get the chance to decide who you want as your boyfriend. I would talk to your current boyfriend and ask him why he is acting like that (talk to him in person!), then see how it goes from there. Good luck!1