Hi guys! So, my ex said he dreamt that he was running away from me and said he began to feel insecure and scared about us. I told him it's probably just a dream and that it must be because he never had a serious relationship before. Because I'm in school part time, he feels like he doesn't want to continue as he thinks he will bring my studies down? I told him that it's just school, I can always study and being there for my partner is more important. He said he doesn't want to try anymore. And when I texted him again, telling him to think about it again because I feel that his decision is premature and we can still do something if we both willing. I told him I feel like he's good for me. He replied back with a "you're a good girl, but get a grip. You are not good enough for me". This is a week ago and it still breaks my heart. I can't tell if it's really my problem or is it just him with commitment issues. He never had a girlfriend before me.
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds vaguely excuse-ish to me. I think he was looking for a reason and pulled that one out of the hat. I know it isn't a good feeling - but in this case, I'm not sure what you could do other than what you did. He seems to be the one who wants to move on, and you can't force a relationship.1
Most Helpful Girl
"You're not good enough for me", so in the beginning he was trying to make it seem like he wasn't good enough for you and then he switched it around, sounds really asshole of him or he just wants to be an asshole so you're not as heart broken but here's the thing people will be just up set either way. So I would just let him go, if he's able to let you go that easily then let him because you deserve more.0