I dont know if Im in one. He easily gets mad, and gets really mean/insensitive when mad. He says "fuck you" and says mean sarcastic things. But when were not fighting he's really loving and supportive. He does have moments where he's mean and sometimes is really sweet. I dont know what to do. We had a fight and haven't talked in a week. 😞
Most Helpful Guy
Oh yea... and i found out why people tend to stay in one. Because they feel they are exactly what the abuser spews from their mouth.
My ex was verbally and physically abusive... and i still stuck around... she was my karma... since then, i dont take shit from no one.
Most Helpful Girl
You're in an abusive relationship. People like your boyfriend have that tendency to be really awful, mean and nasty but once they cool off they act like they love you and I guess in some weird, twisted way they do but it's not the kind of love you want. Then you end up staying because you remember how nice and sweet he CAN be but just think about it, is how nice he is sometimes really worth all of the nastiness he puts you through? You deserve to be happy and you can't hardly be happy when you have someone that yells awful things at you, that's not a happy life. Trust me, things get better when you cut those people out of your life. It's hard at first but then you realize just how great life can be when you don't have such a toxic person bringing you down. Please break up with him because you deserve all the happiness and love in the world and he can't give it too you, if anything he's just making it harder for those good things to come into your life. If you ever need to talk you can message me. Good luck, I really hope that everything works out for you0