I ask because my (now) ex and I broke up (again) because she feels a lack of chemistry. However, this has been an on and off relationship for 3 years. Each time we get into it, it's always super intense, she love bombs me, and then once we start being regularly intimate she pulls away. This is 2-4 months, and like clockwork. After a 2-4 months of separation she always comes back, sometimes pulling out all the stops to win be back over again.
Technically, I believe her to be a love avoidant and narcissist.
So I ask, what does chemistry mean to you? Because it seems that our friendship and attraction to each other is off the charts, until she says there's no chemistry, and walks.
Most Helpful Girl
For me being in a bad marriage and not really feeling love. Once I started dating again I felt nothing for a lot of my dates. Then I met the man I'm dating now. For the first time I can say I'm in love. The chemistry I feel is it just fits the first time he held my hand and our fingers fit and it didn't hurt my finger bones I knew there was something. The way he makes me feel safe all the time. Just so many different feelings after 10 months I still get butterflies hearing his text tone, him pulling in my driveway or when he hugs me.1
Most Helpful Guy
Elements in periodic table lol jk. Nah it just means someone who you really connect with and get along wiht.0