Me and my partner* have been together for 5yrs and got married last April, back in December she told me she wasn't happy and that she wants space and separate to work out what she wants in life, i ask if we could work on things and see a councillor, we had 1 session together and in January she said still wasn't happy and she moving out (she currently still looking for a place) she says that if she alone she can learn to love me again down the track
my question is has anyone else experience this and does a separation generally mean the end
Most Helpful Girl
😕 that's really rough, I'm sorry Hun.
Personally (and this is only my opinion!) I think that if someone isn't willing to work on a relationship then it's done. It takes effort on both sides; if one person doesn't want to try and fix what is broken (and sometimes it can't be, this is also possible) then it can't be put back together.
And honestly I would be wary if my partner came back after a period of time and wanted to try again... had they dated and not found anything better? Don't I deserve more?
I could be completely wrong though, I hope it works out for you!!0
Most Helpful Guy
She will be fucking other guys, you can be sure of that.2