I've just came out of a toxic relationship, and I know 100% I do not want to get back with the person. The thing is, I still want the best for him and to see him happy makes me happy as well, but it sometimes stings from time to time. This person broke my heart way too many times and he was emotionally abusive, so is it weird that I want him to be happy?
Most Helpful Guy
Quite the opposite! I deeply admire you for this capability, because wishing somebody a bad life isn't gonna make yours better. Everyone has the right to be happy and your attitude is anything but selfish. Humanity needs more people with an attitude like yours, I mean that honestly!1
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Most Helpful Girl
I was in a similar situation with an ex. And he's reached out to me a few times. I'd never get back together with him but I simply wish him the best. Because I got to know the soft side of him and truly get to know him as a person. He's a likable guy but he's way to over-protective, jealous, and has bad anger issues.. but I will always wish him the best. At one point I really loved him and he kept promising me he'd change but you can never expect anyone to change for you.. he has to learn on his own, so I left.1