all this week my boyfriend and i are arguing about the most redecules things... like what's that dress... oooo no your ass is too much in this jeans (tho i am a thin girl)... oooo no don't get out without i allow you... oooo no you got out and you didn't took the car now it's your fault that boys will tell you filthy words... and you like it don't you bitch?"
it kills me inside and whenever i try to talk to him about it he gets really nervous and he threats me that he's gonna go and get another girl... these days it's so rare to jear an "i love you from him"... but tho we sticked tougher as always
today i really appologize but i couldn't take no more
he really hurted me saying that i am a slut (i appologize for this kind of words ) and that he can never marry a "fucking slut bitch" ... and that he was only playing aroud with me only to pass time that he hated me and all is just over between us... and that he hate everything about me...+ that he told me:"i will never marry a dirty girl like you i will marry '''''( this girl his mom suggested for him 3 years earlier ) and that she's rich and beautiful and well educated... not a slut like you "
he hong up... then blocked me on Facebook
to your informations dear helpers... my boyfriend somtimes block me on Facebook then deblock me after 5 min or 30 min max... tho he always asults me over stupid things
today he blocked then didn't deblocked me
i am heartbroken. ... lost and feel awful tho i didn't do anything wrong but trying to communicate with him about how much he hurts me when he say this kind of words to me
PS: it's been 4 years almost 5 that my boyfriend and i have been together i really love him tho it kills me to say it in such a situation
so i need something some kind of plan or idea to make him beg for me...+ i'll do anything it takes just tell me what to do but no break up ok?
i will not talk to him for a month...2 months... make him jalous... anything please
help me :(
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''it's been 4 years almost 5 that my boyfriend and i have been together i really love him''
Notice how every single woman in an abusive and unhealthy relationship says exactly the same thing. Your problem is within, but probably began when you were a child. You do not love yourself, you do not know what love is and you are addicted to the traumatic behavior you get from being with this guy and are mistaking the chemicals produced from the stress, abuse and emotional taunting for love.
This is EXACTLY the same thing that I've seen almost every single girl say that has / is in an abusive relationship.
If you are not willing to leave him then there is nothing anyone can do to help you. It's as simple as that.2