I'm 28 and engaged but unhappy with him and have been for awhile. I've asked him to change the things that are the deal breakers for me but he keeps going back to his old ways. The thought of going back out in the dating world at 28 scares me so much. So it has crossed my mind to just deal with it and look past what is bothering me. My fear is things will get worse after being married. Is this a bad idea to "settle"?
On a side note I've never had trouble finding guys to date but I haven't been single for over 3 years hence why I'm worried. I have a lot going for me but it's still scary to end things then go back out in the dating world.
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I use to feel like this. But had to realize that I was in a toxic relationship. You didn't go into detail here so I dont necessarily whats going on. Whether its a communication issue, or him talking to other females. Its unclear. But any relationship that you form should be upbuilding and uplifting you. It should be about growth. And the two of you growing together as a couple. If you are feeling that this is an ongoing issue I would consider doing a self reflection on what it is what you want in your partner. And why it is that you fear being single.0