She is really depressed/unstable and saying how her life will be over if she has no chance of getting back with me. At first I thought if she gets her life together maybe we could try again but she never really tries. Just talks. I feel like if I tell her she has zero chance of getting me back it would be really bad for her. I want her to eventually have a better life just not necessarily going to be with me. So should I tell her there is no chance or just wait till I actually have a new partner to say that? There's a tiny possibility she might get her sh** together but I doubt it.
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Tell her you two need to part ways, get your lives together and find people who you are actually compatible with. don't wait. You'll make it worse for the both of yas.1