My boyfriend treated his ex like a princess but not me, why? (Page 2)
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I'd say you the rebound lady. he doesn't really care for you. he just needed someone.
He broke up with her 3 weeks ago and is with you? That's not good. He's just using you. He's not over her and the reason why he's not treating you like he did her is because he's not serious about you. Why are you with him?
like he's using you to move on. but if you really like him, you can help him. but if he can't change his mind about hix ex even he's already with you over a long time. you might get hurt and he's not worth your time.
It sounds that he's not completely over his ex. You moved into the relationship too quickly that he isn't able to treat you in a way where he shows his affection. My advice to you is to break things off and have him move on from his ex first.
Hun if it was 3 weeks ago
1. Your the rebound so he's not going to make all that effort as he's not over her
2. Your too available so he doesn't feel he needs to make that effort
3. Its only been 3 weeks. He barely knows you let alone holidays etc
I second this opinion.
But I strongly feel that she's just a rebound.
Sorry to say this hun but it sounds like you are the rebound. 3 weeks is too soon to be ready to commit to a new relationship. Also stalking his ex is bad form.
sorry to tell you think but its been only 3 week since he broke up with her... he might not got over her yet and you might just be a rebound to him.. just be careful you might get your feelings hurt
Don't worry about the past. But if he's making no effort for you, then dump him. He's telling you he doesn't really care. You can do better.
You can't compare how he treated his past relationship with your relationship maybe the way he treated her had to do with why they broke up and he learned a lesson from that.
Maybe you guys are more likely close buddies.. u both should have been friends before u become his girlfriend.. So no great feeling of exposed kind of love is shown for you.. Don't compromise for a time being attraction for his tension to relax.. find out who is really nice and good choice for you.. and have a great love life...
perhaps he's trying a different approach.
ask HIM why, he'll probably have a better reason.
"hey honey, I noticed you treated your ex like a princess but not me, I was wondering why this was?"
well i think you should beware , but also be patient. It might happen that he starts loving you , so give him all the love and care yiu have. meanwhile just be cautious, he might be using you.
It could be that he learned the hard way that treating girls like princesses makes them think they are entitled to it...
3 weeks are to soon for a new relationship, you're just his rebound, he can't be over her that fast
Have you addressed the situation with him?
everyone loses a part of themselves from a break up here and there...
how long have you been seeing him?
well how long have you two been together? because maybe it will take some time for him to warm up to you.
u should know by now that there are different levels of attraction towards different people.
maybe his chemistry with her was far greater than it is with you after all.
He might be afraid to give that much of himself to someone again. He needed more than 3 weeks to recover from that breakup.
I honestly don't mean to sound harsh but he was obviously more into her and may just see you as a distraction
He's probably not as trusting from his last relationship, give him time.