So me and my ex were in a relationship for almost 2 years. The last year was herder but in the end we loved each other very much and always tried to fix stuff. In the last 2-3 months of our relationship we had a talk and ever since, our relationship was going better. And then there was a day 2 weeks ago when she said she needed the weekend to think and we wouldn't see each other. She realised that she wasn't herself in the relationship and prefered to leave me even thoug she still loves me deeply because she was tired of trying to fix stuff. We are still friends but for now we dont really talk to each other. I'm asking her to come take her stuff so I could move on and secretly because I would see her again. The thing is she always say she would say next week or I asked her again and she said Saturday but it depends on so much stuff so i should'nt count on it. What does this means?
Girls, My ex broke up with me a week ago, I still want us to be reunited but it seems hopeless... Now what?
What Girls Said 6
Ever heard of the NC (no contact rule?) girls are crazy about it now since a few youtubers and bloggers started to promote it :P ;) Anyway... I'd give her some space regardless. If she's into you - she'll come back in any way. if not... wait a bit and then move on after lets say a month. Menawhile don't do anything stupid like "casual dating" etc. But - enjoy your life. Don't get too crazy about it. Have some fun, perhaps spend a weekend out of the city with your friends etc. Or visit your relatives or have some "me time" anyway. I don't know what guys do apart from masturbating and clubbing, but use your mind :) Live as a single person for a month and see where it goes. Maybe you really need to break up or just some time apart to see things differently. Anyhow, respect her wish for some space ;)1
Yeah she's not sure yet. Stop pressuring on her, just give it a time. She may cool down and come back around for you.0
Tbh, I am also on the stage you had right now but I guess on my own opinion just give your girlfriend some space for a while... each of us need a space to make our relationship healthier (like go out with friends) stop seeing your girlfriend for a while (not till one month, 2 weeks is fine) but don't loose your communication ( try to send her messages too and reminds her that you are just behind her back whenever she needs you) or if you know her address surprise her with flowers or any presents you can offer to her...1
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