Is this a good break up text?

Been seeing this guy for a month, great chemistry and i enjoyed his company but i can't go on. I have my own reasons and have nothing to do with him, mostly my insecurities. I dont wanna go on cuz i dont wanna get hurt. What do you think? Is it bad to break up via text like this? If you were the guy, how would you feel?

Is this a good break up text?



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What Guys Said 20

  • Don't even consider breaking up with somebody over text.

    Woman up and say it to his face. He deserves that much.

    Only a cunt breaks up over text. It's the pathetic way out for cowards.

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  • Anyone who breaks up by text is not an adult. This piece of shit will get his one day. You've been with him for months, not years. You can't go on and? LIVE? You have to get over him. What are you going to do if you get involved with a guy and after 5 years he breaks up? Break ups are a part of life. GOOD LUCK!!☺

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  • It took you a month to realize your insecurities? I'm sure they were there even before you started dating him.

    Regardless breakup with him, so he can find someone new instead of wasting his time on someone who isn't sure where her boat is heading.

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  • Yes, you can break up by text but generally it's not suggested. Face to face is much better.

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  • Breaking up over text is always a bad move.

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  • You are 25 to 29 years old and still acting like a child. Grow the fuck up.
    These "reasons" are issues with you personally that will nevery be fixed. You need help. I recommend you seek help for that.

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  • how the fuck would you feel if the role was reversed? c'mon! you don't even respect him enough to give him the decency of talking to him face-to-face. grow the fuck up. that's how children break up.

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  • Breaking up by text is never good.

    People deserve a face to face breakup.

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  • saying it's not him never works. just say something like
    I think we are taking this to fast and I wanna slow down. I don't think we should see eachother as boyfriend and girlfriend right now. I'd love having a bestfriend like you though. Maybe things will change in future.

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  • I got sad just reading that

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  • NO TEXT IS A GOOD BREAK UP TEXT.

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  • i don't think that's a good idea.

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  • in my opinion thay text do not send it talk to him and do it in person

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  • Uhm no. I'd still like to get to know the reasons.

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  • umm it leaves a lot of questions. he may think it was him, but what break up text is a good one?

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    • I know i will include in the text that its not him

  • I think you might want to make it more clear that your reason for this decision isn't based on him.

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  • weird I didn't like it he didn't say it from heart there r no emotions in this text

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  • This is probably a very bad idea.. Respect his time, let him know what you feel directly

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  • My ex-girlfriend I was in a long distance relationship with broke up with through a text over a year ago. It was not cool. It just left me so many questions about what went wrong with the relationship, even though I have a pretty good idea but I'll never know for sure. I can honestly say that I have not recovered from it, even though I should have moved on from it. I'm saying is that you should either call him or tell him face to face.

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  • I don't even know where to start...

    Your text isn't good, your reason isn't good...

    Why do you really want to break up? What don't you like about him?

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    • Nothing to do with him its been very hard to make the decision and im sad too but i can't tell him the reasons

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    • he's on a temporary working visa so im not sure if he ll be able to stay, im not even sure if he wanna stay; we're from very different cultures and im also a very shy person so i can't fit in with his family and social groups; and im actually afraid of being hurt too because once i have feelings i start to obssess. Like i said these are just my own insecurities

    • You should tell him the truth

What Girls Said 11

  • You should either call if you're too far or tell him face to face. This text to break up is complete bullshit. And you should at least give him reasons. This just seems like a cop out.

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  • Aside from the fact that no break up should be done by text I think that yours is terrible. If you are really in your mid/late 20's, act your age and meet him to discuss your "insecurities" you don't break up with great chemistry and who's company you enjoy. Please get your head on straight and rethink this.

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  • This is terrible. "I have my reasons"? That's all? If you have any humanity left in you, please be kind to explain those reasons (preferably face-to-face). There's nothing worst then someone dumping you without an explanation.

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  • Meet up for drinks or coffee, and tell him what you told us: that you are insecure. That you don't want to go out with him anymore. The truth is much kinder than making him wonder what happened for who knows how long.

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  • Yes, and quite depressing as well. :'(

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  • I don't think you should break up over text tbh... but I guess you should tell that he didn't do anything wrong... like it's not HIM or his fault (idk hope that makes sense)

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  • If you truly care about him at least give him the courtesy of a phone call

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  • Stop being a little bitch and do it in person. The fact that you're looking for validation by posting this question for validation shows that you care at least a little bit about how it sounds. And if you care that much then have the courtesy to say it to his face

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  • I hate it to death when someone breaks up over text like that. Like not even worth a f* phone call at least?

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  • meet with him, face to face is better option. and tell him your reasons, he won't know why you want to break up and it will be even worse for him.

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  • You can't break up in a text message. That's just... low class.

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    • Im sad too believe me i just can't do it in person

    • You have to. Or at least a phone call.

    • Give him the respect of telling him in person. as far as I can tell from your other replies, he hasn't done anything wrong. If you're serious about breaking up with him, first talk to him about what your issues are. He may be able to ease your uncertainty, and if they can't be at least partially solved, you're breaking up with him so it doesn't matter that much to you that you did talk to him. But, it will mean a lot to him. It's worth not destroying something that may have potential.

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