My boyfriend of 2 years dumped me recently saying he doesn't know what he wants and is depressed and has been drinking a lot. A few months now, I started to suspect this girl he became friends with, and tried really hard to not think like that because she's really nice and I like her. I wasn't even worried until she brought up one night that she was scared I didn't like her because they hang out a lot. They Facebook message everyday and they always made me feel crazy because he said she really likes me. When I hang out with her I do feel it's genuine. I know it's wrong but I looked at his phone the other night. They send each other pictures (not sexual) but go on how they think they are good looking and whatnot. He said a few sexual jokes and I know we broke up, but we are living together still because he doesn't know when he's moving back home yet, and he says it might just be a short break between us. He doesn't know. I'm waiting for him to leave because I get the house and cats. But what do I do now? It drives me crazy to know his time of working on himself and "changing" has been drinking, light drugs, and flirting with her. I'm in a lot of emotional pain right now. Nd he denies it all even though I know better. I never would have checked his phone if I hadn't suspected. I can't really let him know what I know without saying I looked. HE thinks it's people people just talking.
How do handle your boyfriend being overly flirty with a girl and you know something's wrong?
What Guys Said 2
First of all, he is not your boyfriend anymore. The sooner you accept it and embrace it, sooner you will be able to let go of it. Try mingling with other people, keep yourself busy. I dont think it is your place to say anything here.0
Move on, it happens that everyone lose their head sometimes and they start drinking etc.. about the girl, its nothing, man can't have no fun girl friend? also you are worrying about this now? you two broke up, its a stupid thing to try to find a reason about why you two broke up like you are doing rn0
What Girls Said 2
I wouldn't be with someone who constantly crosses such limit
I cannot watch over him all the time; that's tiring and undesirable0
what a mess! can you get him to leave your house?0
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