Did she just let me down easy or what?

[Anonymous]

I sent this to my ex because I want her back we been broken up for a about 4 months she was with an ex the entire time I think they just broke up.So here it is

I just wanted to get something off my chest. Since I really don't see us talking near as much since you lost so much interest in talking to me. But here it goes first of all I don't do this and don't know why I am but if I don't it will bother me forever. I know I might have said I would never get back with you and I hoped and thought that I did mean it but not seeing or hearing you for the last few weeks realize how wrong I was. I am always thinking about you even when I try not to but just can't help it. I really have no idea why either. I'm missing you like crazy and you CANT move to NC that's way to far away. :( I guess that's all I have to say you don't have to reply because I know what your going to say either you have a bf, or something new I just wanted to say how I feel so I didn't regret not doing it have a nice life and I REALLY wish you get everything you ask for in life and can be happy.

She sent this:

wow.thanx 4that I'm and I'm sorry for everything and didn't realize that you still care that much.and it wasnt nc it was sc. a couple more hours away.but I gotta do what I gotta do.things aren't getting any better. I'll explain everything at a later time and it will make more sense but right now I'm not ready for that sorry

What do you think I think she was just letting me down easy but at the same time I don't think she knows that I think they broke up so I don't know any advice?

[RachieKate16]

I think he's is just being a jerk. I don't know any girls who would do that to a guy. I'm sorry for what happened to you but maybe you should meet her in person and talk to her because she needs to take responsibility for lying to you about being with her ex the entire time.

The exact same thing happened to me awhile back and I finally got together with him on the last day before christmas break and asked him what was up. I told him if he ever did the same thing to another girl I was going to get one of my big guys friends to beat him up.

Anyways.you need to talk to her in person and sort things out because it seems like you are still confused and I think she didn't mean to let you off easy or not. I think she just wanted you off, so talk to you and get everything straightened out.

[Asker]

She has already taken responsibilty for it and has said sorry many times for it that happened along time ago. She doesn't know that I think that they broke up hence the reason I put I know your going to say you have a boyfriend I don't want her to know that I know I want her to tell me on her own

[mommy2b]

well there is one thing I agree on with rache kate16 you should talk to her in person but just go to give her comfort and let her tell if she want to. if she is not ready then she is not ready but I don't think she was trying t let you off easy I think she still cares about and she is just going to sc to start over. just give her some time and she will come back to you. hope this helps

sincerly,

maggie m

[Asker]

Yea I don't know like today I was talking to my manager were pretty good friends and she used to be pretty good friends with my ex well I bought flowers for a girl at work because I like her and I'm trying to move on she was with her boyfriend at the time well she tells my manager "I heard____ got flowers for___I think she can do better this pissed me off wtf she has a boyfriend why is she getting jealous. I just typed a really mean I'm 4 her about when she comes online I'm sending it to her

[mommy2b]

Good that you are moving on I am happy for you. I hope you find the right one for you.

[Asker]

Yea thanx I confronted my ex about her comments she said she's not jealous of shit I was like right well your not going to talk about me like that and expect me to let it go so I told her f*** you and leave me alone now I'm working on getting her number blocked so she can't bother me anymore

[mommy2b]

Nice I am proud. but if I where you I wouldnt have let her talk to e like that I would cuss her ass out.