first off, what she did was horrible and unexcusable, I'm so sorry you're going through a heart-break, but it's only understandable that you would feel this way. but I agree with luvbiddy, your ex has a LOT of issues that she needs to deal with and can only deal with those on her own, and it does sound like she needs professional therapy.
and for you, it seems she is only doing you harm right now. you should put yourself first and move on from her. I know it's so difficult because you love her and want to see her be happy and do good in life, but your own emotional well being should be your priority. and you'll get over her with time, I promise.
you sound like a very good man, find a good, stable, mature women who is deserving of your rare qualities.
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It sounds like your ex has a lot of problems: anger issues, an alcohol addiction, and she clearly doesn't know who she is yet. Furthermore, she probably slept with that dude because she was heartbroken over breaking up with you. Yes, you sound like a wonderful, reliable, trustworthy boyfriend. But I don't think that you alone can provide her all the resources she will need to set her life straight. She needs to focus on getting good grades, maybe see a therapist, and find herself a good role model. Does she have any siblings?
"We ended up breaking up, because we figured we were spending way too much time together, and that she needed to self-improve, so she could be a better girlfriend, and that, her family didn't want us dating. But it was almost like a break, because we still hooked up and sh*t like that. We really seriously loved each other."
The reasons you give for the break up don't seem very compelling.
If she broke up with you, what's the point of her hooking up with another guy? Shouldn't she do that only to prove to herself she's still hot after YOU dump her? If it happened the other way around, what's the point?
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sounds like you chose a classy lady. not.
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