I wouldn't rule out reuniting altogether, but I would be very cautious about the whole situation. It makes a lot of sense that he would try to win you back after finding out you were seeing another man. He is probably unsure of what he wants, and I think you are to. I think you should think back and remeber the reasons you two separated in the first place, because I know after even a short period of time our minds seem to deminish old problems, we forget about the severity of the issues we had.
On the other hand it is probably true that he does love you.
My experience has taught me that you can love a lot of people/things, but that love isn't always enough. You can love someone very much but still treat them very badly, abuse them, take them for granted.
I would suggest that you give him a chance, if you feel inclined, but go very slowly, just be friends, go out for coffee together, do dinner once and awhile and see if your feelings for each other continue to get stronger, or you might realize that your relationship has come full circle and you have already given each other all you have to offer.
Rebounding to familarity is easy, figuring out what YOU really want and need is much harder.
Good Luck.
Gee, it sounds like he's being nice just to get you back. Nicer than he was when you broke up? Or when you were married to him?
My mom says that leopards usually don't change there stripes.
Maybe you should get into some counselling or something with him. Maybe find out who he is now and whether he is lying to you.
Or maybe just move on.
Be careful anyway.
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