I'm talking to my ex-boyfriend secretly. Should I stop or not? I don't want to behave so cheap.

After 15 years of lost contact, I finally saw my ex-boyfriend. I'm happily married with two kids and he's happily married too. I don't want to have an affair with him but I can't stop talking to him. I always dream of making love with him. what I should do?


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  • Just out of curiosity, is this a loaded question?

    By what you've stated, it looks like you've already made up your mind. I'm not judging. The heart / brain wants what it wants. If it's just talking, then should there be any problem. I suppose unless the respective partners are too over-protective, or can't handle you two talking to each other, then I don't see a real big problem - I'm assuming that you're both grown adults, just enjoying each others' conversational company.

    There shouldn't be an issue, unless that is, you act on urges which may result in infidelity. Again, I must stress, I'm not judging.

    Does your respective partner know? And if so, how does he feel about you talking to him? If not, will you keep it a secret? I suppose like wise for him, with the same questions.