My boyfriends friends are trying to break us up any advice?

[girlygirl57]

My boyfriend and I have been dating and he doesn't ever seem to make enough time for me yea we hang out every weekend all 3 days and wed for 3hrs to watch 2movies then he goes home well his friends call him whipped or w/e i dont really care I'm not in on it but they say I'm bein a total control freak over him well yes I love him no I don't c it and I think his friends are just jealous because he found better thing to do then hangout with them and be stupid cause my boyfriend isn't going around at 12 at nite toilet papering or eggen people's houses and yes I care a lot about him I make sure he doesn't get hurt and I'm sorry to say that I stand my ground and I don't let him do any activities that he mite get hurt at because that would just ruin our sex life if he broke anything is it that terrible? and I do make him tell me for my convenience to know where he is at an what he's doin what with I just don't want to worry about him so what do yal think any advice?

[Shlei3]

Compromise here. I would invite the guys to do something fun all together. Bowling, movies, etc. I would invite some of your friends or their girlfriends if they don't have them. Being civil with them will help them ease up. You don't have to be their best friend. They just probably miss their friend. Now this sounds snobby by the way: "and I do make him tell me for my convenience to know where he is at an what he's doin what with I just don't want to worry about him so what do yal think any advice?" .For your convenience? Wow. Ok. And you saying that you don't want him to get hurt because it would ruin your sex life? I am really hoping that that is not the only reason.

[westygrl]

Honey you have to trust. From the last few lines of your question I can tell you might be getting a little too controlling. Would you want to always have to check in with him and tell him who you're with, what you're doing, when you'll be home? Would you want him telling you that you can't go hang out with your girls because he doesn't approve of what you'll be doing? Without trust there is no love.

[bby-regina]

Well at least you are getting some attention, because as you say, he is spending time with you. But talk to him and let him know how you feel. if he didn't want to be with you, would he still be here? think about it. ignore his stupid friends. boys will always be boys. but you have to let him have some fun with his guy friends once in a while. if he doesn't want to spend time with his boys, then you know for sure he really loves/likes you.