I need to beat a guy... But how?

[Anonymous]

Fellow girls, I need your help please...

I'm really into my tae kwon do & kick-boxing and have been entered into a competition by my trainer, but I've only just found out that it's a competition for guys AND girls and I'm going to be competing against a guy!

The competition is fairly soon, so I don't want to let my trainer down, as I get on with her really well.

The rules of the competition are new to me too, in that no padding or protection can be worn (i.e. head guards or cups for guys etc) and strikes (i.e. punches, knees & kicks) count anywhere, so that both competitors can strike anywhere on the body as hard as they want.

I'm OK to compete, but I need to know...

What is the best and quickest way for a girl to beat a guy under these rules?

I asked my trainer and she said to try and kick him in the balls as hard as I possibly could... Would you do that?

Girls... What would you do?

[Anonymous]

Do not kick him in the balls. It is just a competition, there is no reason to jeopardize his ability to have kids in the future.

Honestly your trainer sounds like a total bitch, and the fact that she is advocating something like that is unthinkable.

[ItsJosh1009]

Yeah a kick in the balls as hard as you can would work.
And more do with the sports you do. I assume you haven’t kicked a guy in the balls yet? Lol

I’m a guy and hope my reply is ok

[Anonymous]

A swift kick to the balls.

[Asker]

Yeah, that's just what my trainer said... Is that what you would do in my position? lol

[Opinion Owner]

Yep. I'm not getting my ass beat by a dude.

[Asker]

lol Yeah, that's a good point! I've never done that to a guy before though, so I wouldn't know how hard to kick if if I got the opportunity? As hard as I could? What about the pain it would cause him? lol This is all new to me! lol

[Opinion Owner]

Just enough to immobilize him, not leave him sterile.

[Asker]

I guess that would be hard to judge, but I suppose I could kick him really hard, but just not as hard as I can! lol Have you ever done that yourself though?... Cos I know it's supposed to be really painful, but I've never seen a guys reaction to it! lol Would you be bothered if you did it and he was in agony or something? lol

[Asker]

Well as you kindly responded to my post, I just thought I would let you know that I won the competition! Yeah! lol I was competing against a guy in the final and to be fair he was better than me and was beating me easily, but I stuck to my tactic of fighting defensively and in the very last round he finally lost concentration. I ended up being presented with the opportunity I was hoping for, as I caught him stood with his legs wide apart, so I won the fight by...

[Asker]

... running up and kicking him in the balls as hard as I possibly could! lol I did it that hard to make sure I definitely won and to be honest I have never seen anyone in so much agony, as he was literally rolling around on the floor screaming for ages! lol I was delighted of course because it meant I had won, so I did not care one bit and I was so happy to have won! lol Out of interest, there were many women watching, so how would you have reacted to that as a neutral observer? lol

[Opinion Owner]

I would've been thinking- wow, that must've hurt. Haha but congrats. I hope you don't enjoy inflicting pain on others.

[Asker]

Thanks for the congrats! :o) I don't like inflicting pain, but it was a competition, he knew I could do that & he wasn't allowed to wear a cup. So for him to end up stood right in front of me with his legs wide open was the perfect opportunity to deliver what was the most powerful kick of my life! lol Seriously though he was in so much pain!... But I was delighted to win! lol Would you have felt any sympathy or concern for him then, or just acknowledged his pain without being too bothered? lol

[Opinion Owner]

Well how did you feel? You did what you needed to do to win. Obviously it's not a good thing to do that to any guy.

[Asker]

No, it's not something I would ever normally do! lol But in a fight situation you tend to be in the heat of the moment and when you're getting knocked about, especially by a guy, you do anything to win! That's why my instinctive reaction on kicking him and then seeing & hearing him in agony was that I'd won and I was delighted, but of course that was in a competitive fight situation! It's just there were lots of women watching, so I just tend to wonder what they might have thought of it all? lol

[Opinion Owner]

They probably thought you did what you needed to do to win. And hoped the man would recover just fine.

[Asker]

Yeah, I think those watching that were wanting me to win were celebrating like me, but those that were watching as neutrals probably enjoyed the competition as a whole, but perhaps found it a bit cringing and unpleasant to see and hear a guy on the floor right in front of them in that state, but I guess it was always a possibility! Ok, well thanks again for all your replies to my posts! :o)

[Oneguy20]

Congrats on the win, if he's dumb enough to fight a girl, especially when cups aren't allowed he shouldve known you'd go for a nut shot. Personally why i'd never wanna fight a girl like this, the first chance she gets and you'll get kicked or kneed in the balls. And its real embarssing if a woman hits you like that haha

[cyrus7]

Just to let you know, I would have ZERO respect for a fighter that won by a kick to the balls

[Anonymous]

This is a troll. It's the dude who kept posting about wanting girls to kick him in the balls now posing as a girl.

I recant my answer as to not feed fuel to the fire that is this creep.

[Asker]

Woah, no I'm not... As I said in my other question, I don't know of this 'guy' and again I can't imagine any guy would want that doing to them anyway!

[Anonymous]

ummm... martial arts is a lot about honor and respect, and kicking someone in the balls is not honorable... you can go ahead and do it, but I doubt anyone would respect you as a fighter ever again.

[Anonymous]

he can die like that! find another spot :D

[Asker]

I didn't realize it could be that bad! My trainer thinks that tactically I should try to tire him out by fighting defensively and wait for the opportunity if he leaves himself open, then run up and kick him in the balls as hard as I possibly can! I suppose I could try other things first and only do that if he's winning or the opportunity just presents itself... lol

[Opinion Owner]

lol

[Anonymous]

Practice on other guys

[StephanieHH]

Anything you like - it's your story after all ;)