He sounds unbalanced, and you should be careful. Did you tell him that you wanted him to leave you alone? You need to tell him and make sure he knows you mean it. If you have to let your phone ring and let the answering machine pick up for a while do that- keep yourself busy so that you're not at home if he tries to stop by. Seriously though, if it's getting to the point that you feel like he's harrassing you, you need to let him know that you'll take action if it doesn't stop. Tell him calmly, and point out to him what he's doing. No offense, but he sounds terrible! You're better off making sure he knows you want this to stop, if it doesn't, you might have no choice but to actually take action.
do you think he still loves you? maybe that's his way (I know it sounds wierd) of showing you he's hurt. Overall, when he does come by, have a serious talk with him about what you want done and what needs to stop. are you guys still sleeping with eachother? if you are, then that's the reason why.
I think he still wants you back but he cannot accept it to himself because of his ego. What he is trying to do is hurt you to make you feel that he is a big lost on your part. What you are doing is good. Just ignore him because you are over him. Since he is still bothering you, just talk to him and ask him what does he gets in return in doing so. What else does he wants from you. After hearing his side or explanation, tell him to act his age and be a man.
tell him. don't act like everything is fine when he comes over. get him the message. make sure he knows that you and him can't be friends. you need to make sure that you aren't leading him on, and if your sure your not, then just tell him that if he doesn't leave you alone you may have to take legal actions. you want to be left alone to move on and find someone else to be happy with :) good luck.
Wow. I'm going through the exact same thing. I actually just posted a question asking like the exact same thing! My ex is a super jerk like this too! He only wants me to see him when HE has time, it's a little confusing and then acts like he is the greatest thing on the planet and that onle he can do better than me. Which. sorry but I don't think that's true at all! My friends think I'm insane for even letting this guy get to me like he does. I just want him to leave me alone! So I can move on because you're right when you say, it doesn't seem healthy. I think these kind of guys are just plain manipulative. Anyway. I hope everything works out for you.
Why wont he go away?
Ok. first off, I was with my ex for a little over 4 years. we had our problems but he never wanted to brake up, then he decided to brake it off right... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
What Guys Said 0
Be the first guy to share an opinion and earn 1 extra Xper Point!