It sounds like your ex is trying to just move on completely from you since now he has a baby on the way. Who knows if his girlfriend found out he was communicating with you and gave him an ultimatum. As far as he not wanting to know if you are pregnant is because he probably still has feelings for you which is why is remained in contact with you even though you both were dating someone else. I kinda went through that just recently myself and now she and he are engaged and she was pregnant but loss the baby. Now I am blocked from him phone even though he would tell me he still loves me and misses me. But your ex is ignoring you because he is probably a little confused and feels that if he is now going to be a daddy he need to leave you behind. I would just leave it at that and leave him alone completely and let him figure his life out. It is great by the way that you are happy for him.
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Because he expected that when he told you he never wanted to know if you were having kids or getting married you'd show him the same courtesy. He's having a baby, his girlfriend is in a very sensitive and insecure position right now. And the ex girlfriend comes sniffing around (sorry, but I know that's how I would react to an ex texting my current beau), I would hope that my boy would not text her back or keep any communication with her. I would be concerned that he still had feelings.
It's almost impossible to remain friends with an ex, there's too much history and shared memories, and it's always uncomfortable for your current partner if you are in contact with your ex.
I'd just let this one go, focus on your new life and enjoy it.
I can relate to your situation. The on and off long term relationship that broke up it seems...eons ago. Yet the feelings linger on and on. I would liken the feeling to what it must be like to have an Ex wife (or husband).
He likely does not want to be reminded of what he could have had with you. He wants to focus on his current GF. His current Girlfriend could be the jealous posessive type and insist that he not talk to you...etc...etc...etc.
Just give him time. Odds are given your history he will be back in contact at some point.
no matter what happens if you have bein with someone
for a long time you will always have feelings for them,
its probably touchy as no one wants to know about there ex having sex
it hurts, I don't no why but I feel the same way he is!
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he still likes you, why eles would he not want to talk about kids with you
prime example of how people move along...f*** it just forget about it
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