Why do you guys take forever to text a girl back?
Hey everyone, I was wondering if you could help me out.During the march break I went on a school trip to the U.S. An older guy in my school ended up giving me his number when we were talking to each other on the last day. He didn't have my number so I texted him. We ended up texted from around 11pm- 4am which is pretty crazy to be texting. He was really opening up to me a lot about his past and would compliment me on my looks and appearance in general. He even said good night to me in a cute way and added a heart at the end.I gave him space and did my own things and wondered why he didn't text back, so I sent him a morning text a few days later and he said "good morning sunshine" which made me smile. But anyways..I've noticed that a lot of the time I'm usually the one who texts him, he'll text back but he takes a while sometimes but what really bothers me is that I notice that he'll stop texting and he'll text me really early in the morning the next day.Why is he doing this? He's actually done this a few times now and it sorta makes me a tad paranoid. I wait a day or sometimes more to get a text back from him. He sent me an apology text to me but I feel like it was a bit of an excuse..I'm tired of texting him so would it be OK if I asked him to hang out sometime and get to know each other better that way face to face?
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Most Helpful Opinion
If we reply back right away, you lose interest. You may not think so, but it's true. Also we're not always attached to our phone.
What Guys Said 1
Face to face is always best. (dang, it doesn't rhyme :( ) Maybe he gets busy though? Guys aren't as glued to their phones as girls, usually.
What Girls Said 1
Wow. same exact problem. its like I'm reading my own question! butttt guys usually get more distracted then girls when it comes to texting cause ther always doing something... BUT that doesn't give them the excuse to reply back hours or a day later. whatever. lol