She rejected me then asks me out?

[Anonymous]

I know this girl at my work place.She once rejected me but after a week she asked me out.I refused her invitation.After a 2 weeks when I was calm then I asked her out and she came with me for coffee and then we talked for almost an hour.I could tell she didn't want to leave.Even after and hour of talk she didn't want to leave.

What's going on here? Girls your advise is important.

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She doesn't have boyfriend.

[kandy_canelane]

People ( especially girls) change their minds, we are only human after all. Assuming she wasn't already seeing anyone at the time maybe she thought it would be too messy because you work together, or maybe she never though of you that way until you caught her off guard and asked her out.

Keep in mind, your not the only one who got rejected here. It probably took allot for her to ask you out only to be shot down because of your pride ( no offence). Doesn't really seem like she is playing games because of that.

Ok so you had coffee and from the sound of it it, it went really well. Put all of the awkward " who asked who" business behind you and appreciate the good thing you have in front of you!

[Asker]

Thanks for the valuable input.No offense taken. I really did put all that behind me infact I didn't even ask her "why she did,what she did" . Reason I went back to her because I realized that probably she got scared considering the fact that she knows my nature. I like her enough that I won't let her go and she is worth every risk.

[kandy_canelane]

Awesome- good for you

[Abby24]

When you first asked her out, maybe she was currently talking to some other guy or she wasn't interested in you. Maybe that guy didn't work out or she thought about you within that 1 week and thought to give you a chance. She must have really liked you after you guys talked, so I wouldn't worry about that rocky start.

[queenofpeen]

Maybe she simply changed her mind after thinking about it more.

[obliviousraj]

huh... man I'll tell you one thing here that girls are always confused...be it any thing...!

this one's same as every other girl...they reject at first, and rejection is loud most of the times...bt when they use their rich and valuable (valuable 'coz it's unused) they change their mind.

and believe me it happens jst aftr 5-10 sec. they are sorry aftrwards...and to make up,they ask you back saying..."sorry fr being so rude ...bla bla bla...!"

she is interested in you man, take her out nd enjoy till she uses her v brain once again...lol

[Asker]

lol..that's funny man.

[YouKnowThatGuy]

She was likely taken by surprise and felt like she blew it is all. After a little time to think about it she might have realized she did actually want to do something with you.

Continue as you normally would.

[Asker]

This is my thought too.

[malekoniky]

She had a good time. Rejection sometimes occur. There are always some small reasons that might make a girl reject the guy. She changed her mind. Not a big deal.

[lolli]

Maybe she had a boyfriend when you first asked her out.

[Anonymous]

I know you want a lover, but let me tell you brother, she's been sleepin in the devil's bed.

[Asker]

Sister trust me,there is no bigger devil than I am.Anyways this issue has been resolved and I told her not to mess with my brain and she should mind her own business.

[Shaun]

You are second choice or worse.