She broke up with me back in May. Never got the full message why. Then out of the blue she texted me telling how great I did on a client (medical trade) of mine. I was shocked to be reading this from her, so we texted back and forth seeing how each other were doing and such.
Does this mean she still thinks of me?
Does she think she made a mistake and wants to come back?
Does she just want to be friends?
I would like to get back with her but the trust is hard because she broke my heart bad last time.
Does this mean she still thinks of me?
Does she think she made a mistake and wants to come back?
Does she just want to be friends?
I would like to get back with her but the trust is hard because she broke my heart bad last time.
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Dear Clueless,
Yes she still thinks of you. Maybe the grass was greener on your side of the fence afterall. People who break up usually want to be friends because they could benefit from being your friend.
Don't trust her. There is a reason why she broke up with you without explanation, there were hints, clues etc. You should make her explain herself before you even consider pursuing a relationship with her. It's a typical female move to avoid telling you what really happened. You have to ask her the same question at least 3 times for her to tell you the truth.
My guess is that she started seeing someone else or wanted to see someone else. She broke your heart before, obviously you have a soft spot for her. Don't come on here in 2 months saying she broke your heart again. You have control of your actions and it is your responsibility to protect your heart. I am sorry that you had this experience, but it happens to every one at some point (heartbreak hotel). You can choose if you are going to let her do it again.
My mother's advice: Never give someone a second chance to do what they did to you the first time.
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OMG, You sound like me.
I had my ex text me. sort of the same situation. of course, when you have an emotional bond with someone, you can't just obliterate their memories from your mind. she's thinking of you sometimes and you sometimes think of her.
She may have realized it. But it's been what since May? She may just want to be friends, but if she really hurt you badly, don't go back. Like I couldn't go back to my ex, I've thought about it, I fantasized about it, but all it is is fantasy. It won't be the same as before. If trust is an issue, one of the fundamental basis for a relationships, and you question it, like don't. Cause she ended it right?
Everyone sometimes just wants to say hi to someone old you know seeing how they are.i have done this plenty of times but it doesn't mean I have feelings for the guy. if she did she would have tried along time ago. I am sorry but don't take it as she wants to get back with you. Just keep on with your life. Plus she hurt you don't let her do it again. Like I said keep on what your doing and there is nothing wrong with someone saying a friendly hello and how your doing in your life but relationship wise out of the picture. if you need to talk let me know.