I'm sorry to hear that but my best advice I can give is confront him about it but if he refuse to tell the truth then your choices are either tell him is either me or her if he choose you then make him cut all ties with her but if he said can't choose then tell him I make it easy for you then leave him or make him tell you the truth but if he choose her then leave him because I believe is unacceptable you deserve that treatment you deserve someone better then him no one deserve to go through that it's just plain despicable and sick he should be more loyal to you and to your feelings I wish you good luck and whatever happens happens and if you choose to leave him don't give him another chance that's unless he proves it to you and he has to earn your trust again I hope I helped and good luck
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That is a red flag if I have ever seen one. Sometimes people never get over thier ex's The relationship is like an on off switch that keeps getting flipped. Though I do feel for you, I would recommend not staying with him if that is that case.
You don't want to get caught up in being his second girl. Not only will that hurt you, but it will hurt the other girl and eventually him as well. Love triangles are not fun.
My advice would be to give it a few days, see if he can explain himself and if he can't, move on.
There are 6 billion people on this planet, there is always another guy who doesn't have that kind of baggage.
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You should confront him and be honest about how you feel about it with him. He will either be honest about it or he won't. He will either want you or her so tell him that it is either me meaning you or her but not both.. If he wants to stay with you then he should lose all contact with her. If he wants her then you should just tell him it is over between the two of you and then move on.
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