My ex-boyfriend texting me late at night...

[Anonymous]

My ex boyfriend only texts me at night and wake me up, first time he texted me I didn't reply, the text contained only a dot. :DD the second time he texted me because I asked him why did he wanted to readd me on Facebook, and he told that he just wanted to see if I had added any new photos or something like that, but I didn't add him so he blocked me. The third time he texted me with a dot again. I asked what is it all about, he said nothing, he just was bored or something, and that it is easier to get asleep when texting someone, so I told him to text someone else "I'm not your friend" and he said that he doesn't have anyone else to text to (and I know he has plenty of friends). then he started asking me how was I and etc. also said that he is coming to my town this week, but I was cold towards him so he stopped texting. and if I would text him he probably wouldn't answer.

he was the one who dumped me a month ago, and was ignoring me, told me to get off.

so I wonder could it be that he miss me, or just playing around, and why does he text me only at night?

[summerrose145]

he text u only at night.. coz he thinks that u wld be free at night and will be able to give him full attention... and he is not trying to bother u in morning when u have other things to deal with.
only dot means he was not sure about your response and was afraid if u won't reply... and couldn't think of what should he say to u..
humans say harsh things in anger.. now its upto u to forgive him or not
u can give him cold shoulder and would leave... but you are rejecting a person who loves u and afraid to lose.. so if u dn't want to talk... jst keep avoiding him...
he will move on.

[axh1999]

Well I don't know if your ex boyfriend was immature or not. But if he was a immature guy then he might be playing around with you and messing you up. Just ignore him and you have to rememeber that you guys broke up for a reason. My ex boyfriend texted me after a month of the breakup and he wanted me to give him another chance, and I did and it was a total mistake. So don't take it to consideration that your ex boyfriend is missing you because he is not , he's just lonely.

[Asker]

yeah I think you are right, he's probably lonely, and wants some attention since I stopped texting him. It would be a big mistake to start all over again, probably he would just hurt me again.

But if he would ask me to meet up, should i?

[Frappucino214]

Its probably because he was so used to having you around to talk to at night that he feels the need to talk to you. There may be some feelings but that shouldn't excuse him from texting any other time of the day. He's just using you for his own benefit.