Why do people get SCARED if being told someone is in love with them?
People are always saying how you can scare someone away by telling them how you feel.i don't tel people how I feel- but not because I'm afraid they will reject me. I just do not feel dignified talking about my feelings. BUT I certainly a not afraid to. & I would not be afraid if someone told me how they felt. guess someones feeling is a tremendous desire to rape you or chop of your d***--why is it scary?I do not understand why this is 'scary/ I never get scared when someone tells me they have feelings for me, when I know I don't like them.i feel a bit bad, I can not return their feelings, but I certainly don't shake with fear & run for the hills.i stay friends & try to be sensitive to the fact they are feeling vulnerable. I ride out the awkwardness till things go back to normal.i know it is immature cowardly to just disappear when someone tellyou how they feel. I want to know WHY people get scared- NOT what t says about their character.
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What Guys Said 1
males are usually not comfortable with bare emotions
What Girls Said 1
Well personally, I fell like I won't be able to reciprocate what they feel towards me. Or that they'll feel more than I fell and that's just not fair.