Why are men such idiots and let good women slip through their fingers?

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I mean you hold her hand, stare into her eyes, tell her there is a connection, brag about her to your parents and family/friends, want to see her multiple times a week, call her everyday, tell her you just want to make her happy, tell her you enjoy talkingto her and talk to her everynight for hours, you bring up relationship early on, asking her about her family and etc...you tell her about yoru past and how " nice guys finish last", and how women use, cheat, and leave you allthe time. And tell her that you find it impossible to find a "good girl".

Why would you let a a good woman pass you by? Why would you suddenly change your mind out of the blue and say " you are not ready for a relationship after being so into her? Why would you try to introduce her to your family and then change your mind about wanting a relationship?

Why are men so dumb and let good women slip through their fingers. I mean if you are going to complain about being used and a wonderful woman comes along with nothing but care and compassion in her heart for you...why would you be so dumb to let her go?

I mean women aren't this dumb, we find a good man, we are holding on for dear life. Women will sink their fingers nails down into a good man and never let him leave. We know the value of it...men do it, then months/years later come to regret the one you let go. Why are guys so dumb? having grass greenier synndrome and only getting screwed int he end.
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SORRY ABOUT THE GENERALIZATION, I WAS SAYING MEN WHO DO THIS ARE IDIOTS...NOT ALL MEN ARE IDIOTS...SOME MEN ARE SMART AND WOULD NEVER DO THIS
Why are men such idiots and let good women slip through their fingers?
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