If she's not with you anymore, why do you still care? It's not your fault that people make the decisions they make. I had this happen to me when I was 17 years old, and honestly I sleep great at night because I stopped caring and blaming myself for things that were beyond my control. That once beautiful fantastic woman went on to become a stripper addicted to cocaine and crystal meth. She's now a bloated, disgusting single mom with no education. Me, I went on to work on a Ph.D, and when I'm finished my salary will be 6 digits long or more. You can't control the actions of others, but you can control how you react to them. Learn from this, work hard, take control of your future and when you date other women in the future, don't judge them from one bad experience. Show them respect and be a good loving person who is always working towards a better future for yourself. Do this my friend. It's what I have done and a few setbacks aside, I sleep good at night, I'm still single but happy and I'll die a good death when I'm old! -With Carpe diem you can seize a day, but with love and ambition, you can seize a lifetime.- jbone 79. good luck.man.
This recently happened to me. The fact is, people will do what they want to do, no matter how it makes other people feel. It's not your fault. Just be who you are. Don't even talk to her. I'll tell you what I know she isn't telling you, because I actually got my ex to tell me the real reasoning behind why she broke up with me for another guy. She basically thinks you aren't the right one for her, even if she does like you. When girls get this thought in their head you are screwed. There is nothing you can do about it. This does not mean you are the one to blame. You are being yourself, don't ever change that, and if she decided that you aren't what she wants, then so be it. Maybe you thought she was what you wanted, but it doesn't matter anymore so the best thing to do now is move on. There are much better girls out there that will accept you for you. Don't even talk to your ex anymore. If she decides to come crawling back to you one day, then make a decision based on your intuition, but unless that day comes, don't let her drown your thoughts. Good luck man.
Well, I think it was at least unselfish of her to not place blame on you. Perhaps she knew she was just not right for you (since you say she's turned into a "whore"). While it seems your feelings for her were pretty sincere, try to see the break-up as her doing you a favor. You don't want someone who sleeps around like that or someone who possibly would've cheated on you, which may be something that would've hurt you more.
As far as her not apologizing, my guess would be that since she felt she ended things with you, that she felt as though she didn't owe you an apology. That's just my assumption.
I don't think girls in general are cold-hearted bitches. Sometimes a females experiences bring about a certain attitude or way of being. I think she did you a big favor by going and telling you that she was having her own issues. Clearly she knew she wasn't right for you. Try not to let this situation cause you to be bitter or doubtful of all girls. Good Luck.
I've been single for like a year and a half, and I didn't go f*** around. So here's my theoretical explanation.
She is maybe trying to numb things a bit, perhaps she had a bad relationship after you, trying to forget it with just going around like a w****.
Maybe,she feels that even if she apologized, it couldn't make up for the pain it has caused you.
My ex never apologized to me and he's a manwhore, all he said to me was 'you deserve better'. Those were his words when he called after I found out he cheated. Maybe that's her way of saying 'you deserve better'.
She prob just wanted to lose her virginity and get it over with saddly it was with yu some girls could be real bitches but it comes from their past and take it out on the person they are with but to tell you I know how how it deels because I lost it to an asshole to tell me he was still in love with his ex girl i.m not gonna say to forget about her because its not easy but try not to think about her and hang out with friends wish yu luck!
She is probably ashamed of herself. She knows she did you wrong so if she doesn't talk about it and doesn't think about it she convinces herself that everything is fine... forget about her... I know its hard to do but someone that will do that to you once will more than likely do it to you again and you deserve better.
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Simply because she doesn't see anything wrong with being a w**** or a b*****. Hey, some of the most successful and publicized women are one or both of those things, aren't they?
its a girl thing, they see little detail but never the big picture, she looks what she deos or what you do but never think that with all things she do, she is the bitch!
i think it might have been because if she apologized to you she might actually have to admit to herself that she had become a whore, sometimes things don't seem real till you say it out loud
well, seems like you answered your own question.
she's a bitch.
don't let it hurt you. she isn't worth your time.
wait.she went to be a whore literally?as in prostitute?
she's a bitch, that's probably why. forget her... she obviously has enough problems with herself, and there's no point in letting her bring you down or anything.
well my only guess would be she's just to stubborn or doesn't realize that it bothers you that much. honestly coming from a girl , girls are bitches and a lot of us just are slightly cold hearted. sorry probably not the most encouraging answer.
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